I have read, The Four Agreements & The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz and let me tell you that those two books, although an easy read and short, are so powerful and have truly transformed me into a new human being. I highly recommend them both for anyone who is willing to make changes in their lives in order to be a more positive and loving individual. And I mean someone who is full of integrity, altruism, self love for the sake of truly knowing and understanding love in order to be able to give it, someone who is true to his/her word, someone who does his/her best, someone who doesn't judge, take things personally, or makes assumptions. It may sound simple but it takes constant self awareness in order to make a transformation.
And as an Aspie who often goes into public, who used to get horrible anxiety doing so, I now find it very pleasant to see other people and to smile and say pleasant things in order to get them to smile. Words are your power and one can use them to hurt or to begin healing the world.
I now get along so much better with my autistic son we play and interact more because I truly understand what unconditional love is now and since I have learned to love and accept myself as who/what I am then life is so much more beautiful!!!! And I simply love living in the moment, being positive, avoiding and refusing negativity, and not worrying about the past or the future.
I am blessed with the gift of the present and I am loving every single moment as I am in it.